Show Notes, in order of appearance in the episode:
Betty Martin’s book The Art of Receiving and Giving and some other ways to encounter her work.
Christine Emba’s book Rethinking Sex: a Provocation
Thomas Moore’s book Meditations: On the Monk Who Dwells in Daily Life
Maia Kobabe’s book Gender Queer
Chapter 3 of Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, an American Slave
Kaitlin Prest’s The Heart podcast — “No” series
Lux Alptraum’s book Faking It
Peggy Orenstein’s book Girls and Sex
An example of a woman (Ashley Cobb) who loved her ho phase and recommends it appears on Shan Boodram’s Lovers and Friends in an episode about freaky women, and Madonna/whore complexes.
Always plenty of references to Whyla’s love/hate relationship with Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast
